• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer

Christian Concepts

Salvation, identity, and relationships are all secure in Christ—Discover God's truth and find emotional healing through deep soul care.

  • Start
  • Salvation
  • Identity
  • Marriage
  • Healing
  • Subscribe
  • About
    • About
    • Contact
God Did Not Save All Ten Virgins

God Did Not Save All Ten Virgins

July 14, 2024 by Matt Pavlik 1 Comment

Reflection Time: 8 minutes

Everyone will not be saved, but those who are saved cannot be lost. Salvation is priceless like a fine pearl or a hidden treasure. Those who have it, value it above all else and act accordingly in the primary aspects of life. Jesus contrasts two groups of people in Matthew 25. Five virgins are respectful, prepared, and discerning; they are wise by the Spirit of God. But the other five virgins are impulsive, entitled, and careless; they are foolish, lacking God’s Spirit. In this parable, God only saves the wise.

Then the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them, but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps.

Matthew 25:1-4 ESV

So, the foolish did not prepare to endure to the end, like the wise.

Then all those virgins rose and trimmed their lamps. And the foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ But the wise answered, saying, ‘Since there will not be enough for us and for you, go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.’

Matthew 25:7-9 ESV

God Does Not Save the Unprepared

Some believe this text teaches it is possible to lose salvation. They tell us that all of the virgins are saints, the lamps are the hearts of God’s people, and the oil is the grace of God; and when the lamps of the foolish virgins went out, they lost their salvation. The first objection to this interpretation is that the text says, “They took no oil with them” and if the oil is grace, they had no grace, to lose.

Whether they had “no oil,” or “not enough oil” makes no difference. The result is the same. God says to both, “I do not know you.” The foolish ones did not think to take (enough) oil to last however long was needed. They were not thinking about heaven, but only the immediate circumstances in this life. They did not have in mind what was necessary for eternal life and were unprepared. It is not like they had sufficient oil, but then decided to dump it out to forfeit their inheritance. No! They were insufficient from the very beginning.

The foolish virgins said their lamps had gone out. Certainly, their lamps were never properly lighted for someone heaven-bound. They were insufficiently prepared from the beginning because only a genuine Christian will persevere until the end. A lamp without oil will not burn long; likewise, a profession without grace will not last long.

Afterward the [foolish] virgins came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open to us.’ But he answered, ‘Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.’

Matthew 25:11-12 ESV

And, this is even more strongly stated earlier in Matthew, where amazing spiritual works do not guarantee anyone entrance into heaven:

On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’

Matthew 7:22-23 ESV

No doubt these foolish virgins thought their lamps would burn long enough, and felt secure and ready for the approach of the bridegroom. “Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed lest he fall” (1 Corinthians 10:12). They thought they were standing complete in Him, and felt that all was well, but when the cry was heard, they found, to their astonishment and grief, that they were unprepared. All their hopes had been built on the sand.

These foolish virgins more closely represent the unsaved who are only professors. They were among the ten virgins, so unsaved professors are in the church. They thought their lamps would keep burning, so carnal professors have a form of Godliness but are strangers to its power. They were disappointed in the end, so all mere professors will be astonished when they hear it said, “Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels” (Matthew 25:41).

God Saves by Oil not by Works

Oil represents the Spirit of God. To be content without oil, therefore, means to rely on some other working for salvation. These foolish virgins thought they had been doing all that was necessary. Perhaps they lived under the impression that salvation was by works, and their lamps would be kept fueled by their works. But to their astonishment, in the presence of the assembled world, God himself will say, “Depart; I never knew you.” All your profession was without real knowledge of Him; you flattered yourselves that you were earning Heaven and His approval by your works, while your works were at best fifthly rags.

The righteousness of the best of men will not bear the test here; the righteousness of God is all that will pass. The fools were professors, but not clothed in Christ’s righteousness, which is the “wedding garment.” They have ever trusted in their works, while nothing but grace will save sinners.

The five wise virgins had their own oil. The foolish virgins lacked their own and so attempted to borrow others, which was impossible (verse 9). People will not be saved by borrowing another’s righteousness, except if it is Christ’s righteousness.

If these ten virgins represent the church, and all of them were Christians, it appears the visible church would be composed entirely of Christians. But since a large part of the professed followers of Jesus are utter strangers, having never been broken in heart for sin, or brought low at the feet of Jesus, nor been true mourners, or truly contrite in heart, yet seem to have more assurance than those who have felt what is it to be sinners. How many professors are there nowadays, who are even leaders in their churches, and yet not safe in the common business of life, whose words cannot be relied on by anyone, when there is anything at stake?

It does seem fitting that these wise and foolish virgins should represent the whole church. The foolish virgins are so foolish as to be content without enough oil; likewise, thousands in the church are foolish as to be content, though they have not even tasted that God is gracious. Only the people who have truly experienced God’s grace are aware of having been heavy-laden souls and guilty, condemned sinners before God.

It does seem from this that many poor, deluded souls will believe to the very last that their lamps are burning and that they are ready to meet God, and shall learn that all their hopes were vain. What a disappointment to fully believe that many wonderful works will save you, and in the end, when you need everything, to find you have nothing.

What a pity that so many of our preachers, instead of preaching the plain, simple gospel of Christ in its raw power, are declaring that salvation is by works, and in this way turning the minds of the people from Christ, and fixing their confidence in duties. Let each of us ask ourselves the question. Have I the real grace of God, or am I a mere Christian in name only? Have I real hope, and can I give a reason for that hope? Is all my hope fixed on God? Do I trust him for every grace?

These five virgins were foolish. It is said in Proverbs 1:7, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” If these virgins were foolish, they were not wise, and if the first principle of wisdom is to fear God, these foolish virgins did not fear him and therefore were not real Christians. I fully believe that all who do not fear God are unconverted, and I am not arguing that unconverted ones cannot be lost. Thus, we have seen that the parable of the virgins cannot be made to teach apostasy.

This is post 23 in a series; you can read the previous post. This post started as the public domain works of J. H. Oliphant. While sections are the same in many ways, I modernized the language and added my thoughts to provide greater clarity for my readers.
Image by lisa runnels from Pixabay

Matt Pavlik
Website |  Recent PostsBio

Matt Pavlik is a professional counselor, author, and devoted follower of Christ. With decades of experience in Christian counseling, he writes with theological depth and everyday clarity. His resources—centered on salvation, identity, marriage, and emotional healing—are anchored in Scripture and guide believers to discover the freedom of their identity in Christ and the security of their salvation in Him. He and his wife Georgette, married since 1999, live in Centerville, Ohio, and have four adult children.

ToIdentityAndBeyond.com
ConfidentIdentity.com MarriageFromRootsToFruits.com

  • Matt Pavlik
    Already Eternal, Even When You Feel Useless
  • Matt Pavlik
    Contemplate Your Priorities To Prevent Spiritual Decay
  • Matt Pavlik
    Thriving In Marriage Beyond The Honeymoon
  • Matt Pavlik
    Romans 8: No Condemnation, No Separation
  • Matt Pavlik
    5 Tips For Finding A Counselor You Can Trust
  • Matt Pavlik
    You Can’t Save Yourself—But the Good News Sets You Free
  • Matt Pavlik
    Obedience Is Impossible Without The Spirit
  • Matt Pavlik
    Salvation Is Secure: The Spirit Moved In—He’s Not Moving Out
  • Matt Pavlik
    Hebrews 6: Two Fields, Two Hearts
  • Matt Pavlik
    I Am Scared I Will Lose My Salvation
  • Matt Pavlik
    Rescue Before Recognition
  • Matt Pavlik
    Is God’s Love Uncontrolling?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Important Not Urgent: How Jesus Prioritizes
  • Matt Pavlik
    Trust God When You Struggle To Understand Yourself
  • Matt Pavlik
    Only God Has Free Will
  • Matt Pavlik
    9 Experiences That Drain Hope
  • Matt Pavlik
    Adjust Perspective For Peace And Joy
  • Matt Pavlik
    Marital Unity Leaves A Rich Legacy
  • Matt Pavlik
    3 Reasons To Trust God Today
  • Matt Pavlik
    Faith Is Assurance
  • Matt Pavlik
    Seek Understanding Before Solution
  • Matt Pavlik
    Follow The Spirit Not The Flesh
  • Matt Pavlik
    Only God Is Trustworthy
  • Matt Pavlik
    Bad Theology Leads To Poor Mental Health
  • Matt Pavlik
    Trust God To Save You
  • Matt Pavlik
    Holy Spirit Makes The Heart Right With God
  • Matt Pavlik
    Scriptural Warnings Support Eternal Security
  • Matt Pavlik
    Salvation Is Always By Faith Alone
  • Matt Pavlik
    Without Salvation Adam Was Vulnerable To Sin
  • Matt Pavlik
    Discern Genuine Servants From False Servants
  • Matt Pavlik
    Infants Are Conceived Already Sinful
  • Matt Pavlik
    Judas Was Never A True Believer
  • Matt Pavlik
    Spiritual Death Never Follows Spiritual Life
  • Matt Pavlik
    God Never Abandons His Children
  • Matt Pavlik
    God Will Save All Believers
  • Matt Pavlik
    Salvation By Naked Faith In Christ
  • Matt Pavlik
    God Will Save A Great Multitude
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Elect Are Secure
  • Matt Pavlik
    Jesus’s Kingdom Is Secure
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Believer Has An Unfading Spirit
  • Matt Pavlik
    God’s Covenant Will Last Forever
  • Matt Pavlik
    God’s Purposes Are Unstoppable
  • Matt Pavlik
    God’s Love Keeps Us Safe
  • Matt Pavlik
    Gratitude For God’s Care
  • Matt Pavlik
    God’s Gift Of Grace Cannot Be Manipulated
  • Matt Pavlik
    God Initiates New Birth
  • Matt Pavlik
    Forever Cleansed From Sin
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Good News Of The Gospel Is Forever
  • Matt Pavlik
    Christ’s Character Secures Salvation
  • Matt Pavlik
    Christ’s Death Is Sufficient For Security Of Salvation
  • Matt Pavlik
    Loneliness Is Deceptive
  • Matt Pavlik
    Forever A Child Of God
  • Matt Pavlik
    Personality Reveals The Mystery Of Identity
  • Matt Pavlik
    Election To Eternal Life Is Unconditional
  • Matt Pavlik
    Genuine Healing Lasts For Eternity
  • Matt Pavlik
    Increase Motivation By Developing Conviction
  • Matt Pavlik
    A Correct Theology Is Life-Changing
  • Matt Pavlik
    Jesus Will Never Reject His Children
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Mind-Blowing Good News Gospel
  • Matt Pavlik
    People Fall In Love And Break Up For A Surprising Reason
  • Matt Pavlik
    Avoid Taking Actions Personally
  • Matt Pavlik
    Could Artificial Intelligence Cripple Relationships?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Fight Fair Even When Triggered
  • Matt Pavlik
    Authentic Sharing Leaves People Blessed
  • Matt Pavlik
    What Is Sin? A Foolish Rebellion Against God
  • Matt Pavlik
    Spirited Resilience Minimizes Interference
  • Matt Pavlik
    Faith Is Essential Spiritual Vision
  • Matt Pavlik
    How To Desire Without Guilt
  • Matt Pavlik
    Blame And Defensiveness Exposed
  • Matt Pavlik
    Your Past Is The Secret To Your Faith
  • Matt Pavlik
    Find Purpose Focusing On The Kingdom
  • Matt Pavlik
    Maturity Requires Radical Breakthrough Change
  • Matt Pavlik
    Suffer For The Right Reasons
  • Matt Pavlik
    Proactively Pull Triggers to Prevent Pushing Buttons
  • Matt Pavlik
    Choose Faith When All Seems Pointless
  • Matt Pavlik
    Perspective Matters More Than You Think
  • Matt Pavlik
    3 Signs Of A Healthy Emotional Life
  • Matt Pavlik
    Move Beyond Depression Guaranteed
  • Matt Pavlik
    Supercharge Growth With 5 Therapy Goals
  • Matt Pavlik
    Use Your Inspiring Identity For Good
  • Matt Pavlik
    Sensible Risk With God As Your Safety Net
  • Matt Pavlik
    Correction Is Amazingly Hopeful
  • Matt Pavlik
    What You Value Determines Your Worth
  • Matt Pavlik
    Meaning And Pleasure Are Surprising Related
  • Matt Pavlik
    Crave Optimal Ways Of Living
  • Matt Pavlik
    What You Need To Succeed
  • Matt Pavlik
    Seize Freedom And Faith To Dream Big
  • Matt Pavlik
    3 Ways To Protect Your Relationship With God
  • Matt Pavlik
    Emotional Healing Is Possible For You Today
  • Matt Pavlik
    Be Authentic And You Will Belong
  • Matt Pavlik
    Unbelief Is The Only Unforgivable Sin
  • Matt Pavlik
    Recover From Crushing Betrayal
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Danger Of Trusting Too Much
  • Matt Pavlik
    Grieving Frees You From A Trapped Life
  • Matt Pavlik
    Guard Your Heart Or You Will Become Lost
  • Matt Pavlik
    Master Conflict Resolution With 5 Concepts
  • Matt Pavlik
    Dig Up Courage To Bury Your Skeletons
  • Matt Pavlik
    What You Fear Losing Limits Your Freedom
  • Matt Pavlik
    Decision-Making Made Clear and Confident
  • Matt Pavlik
    Recover From Trauma-Induced Dissociation
  • Matt Pavlik
    Fulfillment Is Determined By Your Focus
  • Matt Pavlik
    Eliminate Shame By Believing God
  • Matt Pavlik
    Shame Is A Universal Struggle
  • Matt Pavlik
    7 Kingdom Secrets Revealed By Jesus
  • Matt Pavlik
    Live As A Free Person
  • Matt Pavlik
    Listen To The Heartbroken Spouse You Wounded
  • Matt Pavlik
    Rejection Is Like A Painful Death
  • Matt Pavlik
    Overcome The Lies You Believe
  • Matt Pavlik
    Demonstrate Faith To Complete Your Training
  • Matt Pavlik
    Learn To Trust To Complete Your Training
  • Matt Pavlik
    Make A Commitment To Complete Your Training
  • Matt Pavlik
    Overcome Resistance To Complete Your Training
  • Matt Pavlik
    Complete Your Training To Resist Evil
  • Matt Pavlik
    Good Enough Is Perfect
  • Matt Pavlik
    Pursue Intimacy With Reliable Results
  • Matt Pavlik
    Discover Your True Self-Worth
  • Matt Pavlik
    Be Close And Feel No Shame
  • Matt Pavlik
    Build A Better Marriage With 3 Skills
  • Matt Pavlik
    Consider This Confident Attitude
  • Matt Pavlik
    Rejuvenate Your Marriage By Comparing It To A Game
  • Matt Pavlik
    Increase Your Motivation Just In Time
  • Matt Pavlik
    Act With Authority As You Live By The Spirit
  • Matt Pavlik
    Heavenly Healing From The Inside Out
  • Matt Pavlik
    Genuine Rest Keeps Your Marriage Afloat
  • Matt Pavlik
    Take Advantage Of Defensiveness
  • Matt Pavlik
    3 Reasons Hope Is Always Attainable
  • Matt Pavlik
    Emotions Are Never Sinful
  • Matt Pavlik
    Coping Is Temporary But Healing Is Forever
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Best Way To Receive Love
  • Matt Pavlik
    Be Assertive Even When You Don’t Feel Like It
  • Matt Pavlik
    Amazing Desire To Gain Understanding
  • Matt Pavlik
    Priorities That Keep God Prominent
  • Matt Pavlik
    Worry Less Trust More
  • Matt Pavlik
    Repair Trust Through Repeated Testing
  • Matt Pavlik
    Be Spiritually Competent
  • Matt Pavlik
    Knowing The Truth Will Set You Free
  • Matt Pavlik
    Labels Like Gaslighting Harm More Than Help
  • Matt Pavlik
    Repair Trust With 3 Fruitful Actions
  • Matt Pavlik
    Empathy Energizes Relationships
  • Matt Pavlik
    7 Principles To Grow Your Marriage
  • Matt Pavlik
    2 Helpful No-Guilt Negative Emotions
  • Matt Pavlik
    Discernment Is Better Than Judgment
  • Matt Pavlik
    Know Your Priorities To Increase Life Satisfaction
  • Matt Pavlik
    Brokenness Is Beautiful
  • Matt Pavlik
    Pain Is A Fierce Enemy And A Pivotal Ally
  • Matt Pavlik
    Supercharge Your Living With A Prayer Journal
  • Matt Pavlik
    Addiction Is About Control
  • Matt Pavlik
    Overcommunicate To Save Your Marriage
  • Matt Pavlik
    Freedom Can Save A Marriage
  • Matt Pavlik
    How To Ensure Your Empathy Is Healthy
  • Matt Pavlik
    3 Steps To Achieve Healthy Grieving
  • Matt Pavlik
    4 Signs You Were Neglected
  • Matt Pavlik
    Be Powerful Without Being Self-absorbed
  • Matt Pavlik
    Headship And Submission Are The Big Guns
  • Matt Pavlik
    Overcome When You Feel Like Giving Up
  • Matt Pavlik
    Self-Care Is Not Selfish Or Sinful
  • Matt Pavlik
    Wake Up From A Terrifying Dream
  • Matt Pavlik
    How To Know When To Say No
  • Matt Pavlik
    Are You Super Needy Or Not Needy Enough?
  • Matt Pavlik
    God Will Deliver You From Failure
  • Matt Pavlik
    For A Better Relationship, Breathe
  • Matt Pavlik
    When Joy Feels Elusive And Faith Feels Thin
  • Matt Pavlik
    If It Is Not True, It Is Not Real
  • Matt Pavlik
    Transform Fake Happiness Into Genuine Joy
  • Matt Pavlik
    Prioritize To Avoid Hardship
  • Matt Pavlik
    Reframe Your Life From Ugly To Beautiful
  • Matt Pavlik
    Box Your Concerns And Give Them To God
  • Matt Pavlik
    Complete Character, Confidence, and Commitment
  • Matt Pavlik
    How To Make Trusting God Easier
  • Matt Pavlik
    Remember Your Past For A Healthy Present
  • Matt Pavlik
    Your Struggle Is Related to Childhood
  • Matt Pavlik
    How To Live With Rejection
  • Matt Pavlik
    Surviving On The Fringe
  • Matt Pavlik
    On The Fringe: The Truth About The Struggle To Belong
  • Matt Pavlik
    God Is Perfect
  • Matt Pavlik
    Be Imperfect But Live Strong Anyway
  • Matt Pavlik
    Choose Between Being Stubborn Or Tenacious
  • Matt Pavlik
    Hope Has 3 Essential Ingredients
  • Matt Pavlik
    Healthy Oneness
  • Matt Pavlik
    How To Grow More Confident
  • Matt Pavlik
    Improve Your Communication
  • Matt Pavlik
    Are You Blind Or Lacking Vision?
  • Matt Pavlik
    3 Deaths And You Are Out Forever
  • Matt Pavlik
    How to Climb High (Without Falling)
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Secret to Finding Rest Amidst Tragedy
  • Matt Pavlik
    How To Overcome Negativity
  • Matt Pavlik
    Forgiveness Opens The Heart To Miraculous Healing
  • Matt Pavlik
    Relax Into A Reliable God
  • Matt Pavlik
    Restoration After Wreckage
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Paradox of Humility
  • Matt Pavlik
    Hope for the Holidays
  • Matt Pavlik
    Faith Hope and Love
  • Matt Pavlik
    Faith Has Nothing to Do With Circumstances
  • Matt Pavlik
    Is Control Healthy or Unhealthy?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Is Love a Choice?
  • Matt Pavlik
    How to Live Worry Free
  • Matt Pavlik
    Increase Your Faith
  • Matt Pavlik
    Get Out of Spiritual Debt
  • Matt Pavlik
    Fear of God: Repulsion, Rejection, or Respect?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Nothing Is Impossible
  • Matt Pavlik
    Living With Eternal Purpose: No Guts No Glory
  • Matt Pavlik
    What Heaven Will Be Like
  • Matt Pavlik
    Trust Is Superior To Knowledge
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Wisdom Of Proverbs 18:4 Is Deep
  • Matt Pavlik
    Are You Interpreting the Bible Correctly?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Find God’s Beautiful Reality
  • Matt Pavlik
    Wisdom Sees The Lord As Awesome
  • Matt Pavlik
    Unshakable Hope In Times Of Despair
  • Matt Pavlik
    Why Does God Allow Bad Things to Happen?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Play Is Essential To Being Your Best
  • Matt Pavlik
    Never Give Up
  • Matt Pavlik
    Recommended Resources 2019
  • Matt Pavlik
    Earnest Rest Reveals God’s Favor
  • Matt Pavlik
    Find And Accept Your Authentic Self
  • Matt Pavlik
    Push Through Fear and Find Hope
  • Matt Pavlik
    Make Peace With Your Life
  • Matt Pavlik
    God Always Remembers Who You Truly Are
  • Matt Pavlik
    Is Your Identity Defined By What You Do?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Are You Addicted to God?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Who Are You Really?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Journaling Keeps Your Heart Healthy
  • Matt Pavlik
    Lord Jesus Have Mercy On Me
  • Matt Pavlik
    Transforming Panic into Peace
  • Matt Pavlik
    Jesus Promises He Will Never Cast You Out
  • Matt Pavlik
    Reforging Shattered Lives: God’s Unstoppable Miracle Of Restoration
  • Matt Pavlik
    Pain Is Your Guide – Finding Jesus In The Ache
  • Matt Pavlik
    3 Steps To Overcoming Shame
  • Matt Pavlik
    Break Free From Suffering Needlessly
  • Matt Pavlik
    Is Emotion an Obstacle or a Bridge?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Are You Trying to Solve a Problem You Don’t Need to Solve?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Why Your Feelings Are Important
  • Matt Pavlik
    Enjoy A New Reality
  • Matt Pavlik
    Heal Your Memories
  • Matt Pavlik
    Negative Experiences Can Create Negative Self-Worth
  • Matt Pavlik
    Is Grace Cheap or Costly?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Comprehend Your Salvation With Humility
  • Matt Pavlik
    Relying On Righteousness Keeps You Safe
  • Matt Pavlik
    Claim Full Assurance Of Hope
  • Matt Pavlik
    An Eternal Life Is Never A Fragile Life
  • Matt Pavlik
    Discipline Ensures Victory
  • Matt Pavlik
    Unconditional Love Calls For Absolute Devotion
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Faithful Are Perfect Forever
  • Matt Pavlik
    God Desires You To Be Secure
  • Matt Pavlik
    To Identity and Beyond
  • Matt Pavlik
    Holy Spirit Guarantees Your Inheritance
  • Matt Pavlik
    Eternal Security Means Full Assurance Of Salvation
  • Matt Pavlik
    Does Our All Powerful God Need Us?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Worship God With Genuine Joy
  • Matt Pavlik
    Your Purpose Is Always Packed With Potential
  • Matt Pavlik
    Why There Are So Many Perspectives
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Kingdom Of God: Ordinary Yet Powerful
  • Matt Pavlik
    God’s Love Keeps Believers Safe
  • Matt Pavlik
    Identity and The Gospel
  • Matt Pavlik
    Use Your Potential or You Might Lose It
  • Matt Pavlik
    Trusting God After Buying Deception
  • Matt Pavlik
    Grow Your Desire To Advance God’s Kingdom
  • Matt Pavlik
    Reach Your Potential By Playing The Long Game
  • Matt Pavlik
    Should Feelings Be Trusted Or Discounted?
  • Matt Pavlik
    How do I Realize My Identity?
  • Matt Pavlik
    Identity’s Mystery Uncovered
  • Matt Pavlik
    4 Breathtaking Ways God Responds To Pain
  • Matt Pavlik
    Identity Manifesto
  • Matt Pavlik
    Stop Drifting and Start Living on Purpose
  • Matt Pavlik
    Is this a Cross?
  • Matt Pavlik
    How Two Identities Resolve Conflict
  • Matt Pavlik
    Why Two Identities Struggle to Resolve Conflict
  • Matt Pavlik
    3 Ways Two Identities Become One
  • Matt Pavlik
    Overcome Resistance To Value Your Identity
  • Matt Pavlik
    Your Perception is Your Reality
  • Matt Pavlik
    Embrace Your Midlife Crisis
  • Matt Pavlik
    Why Rejection Means You Belong
  • Matt Pavlik
    Shame Is A Prison
  • Matt Pavlik
    Why A Cult Becomes Attractive
  • Matt Pavlik
    Why Gender is Binary
  • Matt Pavlik
    Sexual Abuse Devastates Identity
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Christian’s Advantage to Lasting Fulfillment
  • Matt Pavlik
    4 Steps To A Confident Identity
  • Matt Pavlik
    You Are Wonderfully Limited
  • Matt Pavlik
    Core Beliefs About Identity
  • Matt Pavlik
    Your Identity Solves Even Your Most Difficult Problems
  • Matt Pavlik
    God Is The Only Place Of Safety
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Reality of Death
  • Matt Pavlik
    The 4 Steps to Growing a Fruitful Marriage
  • Matt Pavlik
    Marriage From Roots To Fruits PDF Preview
  • Matt Pavlik
    Marriage from Roots to Fruits EBook Version Available and Print Version Giveaway
  • Matt Pavlik
    Introducing Marriage from Roots to Fruits
  • Matt Pavlik
    Marriage From Roots To Fruits to be Published April 2015
  • Matt Pavlik
    6 Steps for Everlasting Change
  • Matt Pavlik
    4 Steps to Self-Forgiveness
  • Matt Pavlik
    You Be The Judge
  • Matt Pavlik
    Avoid Legalism and Improve Your Parenting
  • Matt Pavlik
    Dating For A Lifetime Of Blessing
  • Matt Pavlik
    Breaking Through the Love Barrier
  • Matt Pavlik
    Abuse of Power
  • Matt Pavlik
    7 Steps to Healing
  • Matt Pavlik
    What To Do When Life Feels Out of Control
  • Matt Pavlik
    3 Stages For Improving Marriage Today
  • Matt Pavlik
    Experiencing God
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Importance of Self-Care
  • Matt Pavlik
    Healing Your Brain
  • Matt Pavlik
    Repentance: God’s Gift Of Grace That Restores
  • Matt Pavlik
    Forgiveness
  • Matt Pavlik
    Change in Marriage
  • Matt Pavlik
    The Breathable Marriage
  • Matt Pavlik
    Your Marriage and the Parable of the Sower

Filed Under: Secure in Christ

Reader Interactions

Trackbacks

  1. Salvation Is Always By Faith Alone - Christian Concepts says:
    July 21, 2024 at 6:22 pm

    […] is post 24 in a series; you can read the previous post. This post started as the public domain works of J. H. Oliphant. While sections are the same in many […]

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

Recent Posts

  • Already Eternal, Even When You Feel Useless
  • Contemplate Your Priorities To Prevent Spiritual Decay
  • Thriving In Marriage Beyond The Honeymoon
  • Romans 8: No Condemnation, No Separation
  • 5 Tips For Finding A Counselor You Can Trust

Recent Comments

  • Why Your Feelings Are Important - Christian Concepts on Is Emotion an Obstacle or a Bridge?
  • Why Your Feelings Are Important - Christian Concepts on 2 Helpful No-Guilt Negative Emotions
  • Why Your Feelings Are Important - Christian Concepts on Should Feelings Be Trusted Or Discounted?
  • Why Your Feelings Are Important - Christian Concepts on Emotions Are Never Sinful
  • Dating For A Lifetime Of Blessing - Christian Concepts on Build A Better Marriage With 3 Skills

Topics

  • Abuse and Neglect
  • Betrayal
  • Boundaries
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Core Longings
  • Dating to Find a Mate
  • Emotional Honesty
  • God's Kingdom
  • Healing in Christ
  • Identity in Christ
  • Marriage in Christ
  • Salvation in Christ
  • Secure in Christ
  • Self-Care
  • Self-Image

Archives

  • February 2026
  • January 2026
  • December 2025
  • November 2025
  • October 2025
  • September 2025
  • August 2025
  • July 2025
  • June 2025
  • May 2025
  • April 2025
  • March 2025
  • February 2025
  • January 2025
  • December 2024
  • November 2024
  • October 2024
  • September 2024
  • August 2024
  • July 2024
  • June 2024
  • May 2024
  • April 2024
  • March 2024
  • February 2024
  • January 2024
  • December 2023
  • November 2023
  • October 2023
  • September 2023
  • August 2023
  • July 2023
  • June 2023
  • May 2023
  • April 2023
  • March 2023
  • February 2023
  • January 2023
  • December 2022
  • November 2022
  • October 2022
  • September 2022
  • August 2022
  • July 2022
  • June 2022
  • May 2022
  • April 2022
  • March 2022
  • February 2022
  • January 2022
  • October 2021
  • September 2021
  • August 2021
  • July 2021
  • June 2021
  • May 2021
  • April 2021
  • March 2021
  • February 2021
  • January 2021
  • December 2020
  • November 2020
  • October 2020
  • September 2020
  • August 2020
  • July 2020
  • June 2020
  • May 2020
  • April 2020
  • March 2020
  • February 2020
  • January 2020
  • December 2019
  • November 2019
  • October 2019
  • September 2019
  • August 2019
  • July 2019
  • June 2019
  • May 2019
  • April 2019
  • March 2019
  • February 2019
  • January 2019
  • December 2018
  • November 2018
  • October 2018
  • September 2018
  • August 2018
  • July 2018
  • June 2018
  • May 2018
  • April 2018
  • September 2017
  • March 2015
  • February 2015
  • January 2015
  • December 2014
  • June 2012
  • April 2012
  • March 2012
  • January 2012
  • August 2011
  • July 2011
  • June 2011
  • May 2011
  • April 2011
  • February 2011
  • December 2010
  • November 2010
  • October 2010
  • July 2010
  • June 2010
  • May 2009
  • April 2009
  • March 2009

Footer

Follow

  • Facebook
  • LinkedIn
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter
Christian Concepts Logo

© 2003–2026 · New Reflections Counseling, Inc. · Christian Concepts Publishing · Privacy Policy